The Miracle of adoption​​


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ADOPTION MEETS EVERYONE'S NEEDS

HOW DOES ADOPTION MEET MY NEEDS?
PLACING YOUR baby WITH AN ADOPTIVE COUPLE CAN MEET YOUR NEEDS IN MANY WAYS AND BE SUCH A BLESSING TO YOU AS A BIRTH MOTHER.  FIRST OF ALL in an unplanned pregnancy, IT CAN PROVIDE THE PEACE OF MIND THAT YOU WILL HAVE IN KNOWING THAT YOUR BABY IS IN A STABLE AND LOVING ENVIRONMENT, WITH TWO PARENTS WHO ARE NOT ONLY CAPABLE AND READY, BUT COMPLETELY OVERJOYED TO BE RAISING YOUR baby.

SECONDLY when faced with an unplanned pregnancy, ADOPTION CAN GIVE YOU YOUR LIFE BACK.  MOST LIKELY, YOU WERE NOT PLANNING ON BEING A MOTHER RIGHT NOW.  I'M GUESSING THAT YOU HAVE OTHER PLANS AND ASPIRATIONS THAT MAY OR MAY NOT INCLUDE HAVING A FAMILY AND CHILDREN SOMEDAY.  ALTHOUGH YOU ARE PREGNANT, THIS DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO START YOUR FAMILY NOW.  MAKING AN ADOPTION PLAN FOR YOUR CHILD CAN PROVIDE FOR YOU THE FREEDOM TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR EDUCATION AND FUTURE CAREER GOALS, AND YOU CAN STILL GET MARRIED AND HAVE CHILDREN WHEN YOU DECIDE THAT YOU ARE READY.

ADOPTION CAN ALSO PROVIDE FOR YOU THE KNOWLEDGE THAT YOU HAVE MADE THE RIGHT AND RESPONSIBLE DECISION.  IT IS A HARD DECISION TO MAKE, BUT IT CAN BE THE BEST IF YOU FEEL YOU ARE NOT READY TO BE A PARENT.  IT IS MUCH MORE GRATIFYING AND HEARTWARMING TO TELL FRIENDS AND FAMILY WHO ASK OF YOUR SITUATION THAT YOU HAVE PLACED YOUR CHILD INTO AN ADOPTIVE FAMILY THAN TO TELL THEM THAT YOU HAVE HAD AN ABORTION AND ENDED YOUR CHILD’S LIFE.  YOU MAY BE OVERWHELMED WITH THE RESPONSE WHEN OTHERS TELL YOU HOW GLAD THEY ARE THAT YOU DID NOT CHOOSE TO ABORT, WHICH MANY YOUNG WOMEN TODAY DO. YOU MAY BE SURPRISED THROUGHOUT YOUR PREGNANCY AT THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE WHO, RATHER THAN BEING JUDGMENTAL ABOUT YOUR PREGNANCY, WILL BE SUPPORTIVE OF YOUR RESPONSIBLE AND LOVING DECISION.


ADOPTION MEETS YOUR baby'S NEEDS
ADOPTION NOT ONLY MEETS YOUR NEEDS when faced with an unplanned pregnancy, IT IS CONSIDERING THE BEST INTERESTS OF YOUR baby AS WELL. MANY YOUNG WOMEN FEAR THAT THEY WILL LOVE THEIR baby TOO MUCH TO GIVE IT UP.  THIS CAN SOMETIMES BE THE MORE SELFISH VIEWPOINT, SINCE KEEPING YOUR baby IS NOT ALWAYS THE BEST DECISION FOR THE baby'S WELL-BEING.  COMPARE FOR A MOMENT THE CARE THAT YOUR baby WOULD RECEIVE IN A LOVING, STABLE HOME WITH TWO PARENTS WHO ARE FULLY EXPECTING AND HOPING TO RAISE A baby, VERSUS THE CARE THEY WOULD RECEIVE LIVING WITH A YOUNG, POSSIBLY SINGLE MOTHER WHO IS NOT FINANCIALLY OR MORE IMPORTANTLY EMOTIONALLY READY TO BE A PARENT NOR HAS A STABLE LIFESTYLE TO BRING A baby INTO.  THE DIFFERENCE TO THE baby WOULD BE OUTSTANDING.  RATHER THAN ONE YOUNG MOTHER STRUGGLING TO RAISE A baby SHE DID NOT PLAN ON, THE baby WOULD HAVE A MOTHER AND FATHER WHO ARE COMPLETELY PREPARED AND EXCITED TO RAISE IT.  YOU CAN CHOOSE TO PROVIDE YOUR baby WITH A STABLE AND LOVING MARRIED COUPLE WHO ARE COMPLETELY PREPARED TO RAISE AND CARE FOR HIM/HER.


YOU CAN BE A BLESSING TO AN ADOPTING COUPLE
ONE ASPECT OF ADOPTION THAT MANY PEOPLE UNDERESTIMATE IS THE JOY THAT A NEWBORN CAN BRING TO A COUPLE WHO CANNOT HAVE CHILDREN OR WHO ARE CHOOSING TO GROW THEIR FAMILY THROUGH ADOPTION.  IT MAY BE HARD TO IMAGINE NOT BEING ABLE TO HAVE a baby, SINCE YOU HAVE JUST found yourself in an unplanned pregnancy.  HOWEVER, IF YOU WERE MARRIED AND WANTED TO HAVE a baby ONLY TO REALIZE THAT YOU COULDN'T, IT WOULD BE HEARTBREAKING TO HAVE TO WAIT AND HOPE THAT SOMEONE WOULD OFFER YOU THEIR baby TO RAISE. THIS IS THE VERY SITUATION THAT THOUSANDS OF MARRIED COUPLES ARE IN RIGHT NOW.  FOR EVERY COUPLE THAT ADOPTS A HEALTHY NEWBORN, THERE ARE 40 OTHER COUPLES WAITING TO ADOPT.  YOU CAN PROVIDE FOR THIS COUPLE SOMETHING THAT THEY COULD NEVER HAVE WITHOUT YOU, THE CHANCE TO BE PARENTS!  KNOWING THAT YOU HAD THIS IMPACT ON ANOTHER'S LIFE CAN OFTEN TIMES WASH AWAY ANY ANXIETY YOU MAY FEEL ABOUT NOT PARENTING YOUR baby YOURSELF.